Dear Judy,
I was introduced to the idea of Family Constellation work a little over a year ago. At the first meeting I attended there was a woman that I'd worked with not too long before. When I saw her constellation and the change that took place in her from the process I had to experience it for myself.
At the next gathering I was scheduled to have my family constellation. It was interesting to see that not only did I forget to include myself in the set-up, none of the rest of the family even looked at each other. I'd bragged in the past that it is very easy for me to be "invisible" no matter where I am or who I'm with. I realized it wasn'tsomething to brag about. I was a very wounded individual.
During the unfolding of the family patterns it became clear that I felt like no one loved or cared about me. I chose a woman I'd had a difficult relationship with to stand in for my mother. She got into the mother energy and in that time of working together there was a new understanding about my own mother. With this new understanding I felt like I'd been transformed. It also transformed my relationship with the woman I saw as difficult.
In my lifetime I've looked at just about every healing modality you could name. In the past, I've had wonderful physical healing experiences. With the family constellation there was an opportunity to have an emotional healing that far exceeded my hopes and dreams. Seeing the patterns clearly for the first time was a very freeing experience for me and if I could I'd insist that everyone I know have that experience forthemselves.
My family has certainly noticed the change and so have my friends. I like the new, more confident me and I am no longer invisible to myself or to others. I've also embraced trust and let go of fear. These were affecting my life in a very negative way. I want to take this opportunity to thank you from the bottom of my heart for working with me. I am truly grateful that my life has blossomed beyond anything I could have ever imagined. May you be abundantly blessed as you continue to do this work. You are loved and appreciated.
Blessings,
Sandra Benson
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